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A Gentlemen’s Guide To Rape Culture

A Gentlemen’s Guide To Rape Culture

The author clearly gained my respect. Say no to Rape Culture!

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image - Flickr / bronx. image – Flickr / bronx.

If you are a man, you are part of rape culture. I know … that sounds rough. You’re not a rapist, necessarily. But you do perpetuate the attitudes and behaviors commonly referred to as rape culture.

You may be thinking, “Now, hold up, Zaron! You don’t know me, homey! I’ll be damned if I’m gonna let you say I’m some sorta fan of rape. That’s not me, man!”

I totally know how you feel. That was pretty much exactly my response when someone told me I was a part of rape culture. It sounds horrible. But just imagine moving through the world, always afraid you could be raped. That’s even worse! Rape culture sucks for everyone involved. But don’t get hung up on the terminology. Don’t concentrate on the words that offend you and ignore what they’re pointing to — the words “rape culture” aren’t the problem.

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Posted by on October 28, 2014 in Uncategorized


Lesson learned today

No one can bring you out of grief except yourself. If you’re feeling inexplicably morose and are on a verge of a melt-down, do something good for someone voluntarily even if it requires to you to get a bit out of the way. The pure joy that you’ll feel thereafter is the best antidote for your grief. I promise.

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Posted by on October 11, 2014 in Uncategorized